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Why Are We Always So Uninterested To See Our Own Country?

If I ever go looking for my heart’s desire again, I won’t look any further than my own backyard. Because if it isn’t there, I never really lost it to begin with” Dorothy, The Wizard of Oz

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Their names have escaped me now but I vividly remember that interesting, yet stupendous conversation I had with a young Indian couple from south of India. I was waiting for my appointment with an immigration officer in Thimpu – to extend my tourist permit in Bhutan.

It started with one of those moments when you meet another traveller from your home country and you find yourself excited to exchange the usual banalities about how amazing this place is, followed by the ubiquitous gamut of ‘where are you from in India’ and ‘where you’re going next’.

As we finished that, I asked them about their favorite places in south India. I had long desired to travel south of India. [Update Oct’16: But Now I’ve Been To South. Read About Why I Loved Kerala So Much Here] That was their home after all, I thought, no one could know better. Though my question wasn’t much of a tall order, I could sense a moment of panic among them, struggling to find the right answer. “Can’t say, haven’t seen much in India, you know,” said the girl. Later I found out that they have covered more countries than I can even name – the number was over 40 or 50, including most of South America and Africa.

They’d even been to China because they wanted to see Snow Leapord and China has the largest population of them than anywhere in the world. Just two months later, as irony had it, I found that you can even spot a Snow Leopard in Himachal Pradesh.

The Proud Feeling Of A Stamped Passportindian market

I’ve never understood the alluring fascination about travelling abroad. I mean why people want to pay a crock of gold when they can see something equally beautiful in their own country. This statement particularly applies to those living in countries like India. India is so big and diverse that one needs a lifetime to understand its myriad and heterogeneous settings.

Does this have to do with getting new stamps on our passport, or with the pretentious charm behind it? I mean it definitely feels great to check-in on Facebook with Indira Gandhi International Airport, Terminal 3, but paying over a lakh for a seven day trip to Singapore when you can experience something similar in Kashmir sounds like a shoddy deal to me. And if you haven’t been to Kashmir even once in you life then you’re in a greater loss.

When I was in North east India – bumping into a familiar north Indian face became a rarity. I bet you go to London and you’ll find more Indian tourists than you can ever find in the entire north east India altogether. This is when travelling in your own country comes with all the benefits.

Benefits Of Travelling In Your Own Countryindia-transport-funny

Travelling in your home country comes with all the perks. Here you don’t need to apply for a visa. Currency exchanges are not a necessary. Even chances of falling prey to alien rules and customs are slim.

During my recent trip to Southeast Asia, I was travelling from Thailand to Cambodia. Now because I did not want to take any chances with my VISA ON ARRIVAL application in Thailand, I prebooked a flight ticket from Thailand to Cambodia. This was to give them a valid proof of my exit from Thailand in under 15 days – the duration for which VISA ON ARRIVAL was valid. Later I found that you can even book a bus ticket from Thailand to Cambodia, save 70% of the money in the process, and still get away with it.

If I were travelling in India, such confusions were not likely to happen.

 No. I Am Not Against The Idea Of World Travelhimalayas-dog-breed

Understand me, I am in no sense speaking against the idea of exploring the world. But should we not first witness what our own country has to offer. Travelling abroad is a great thing, but if you haven’t yet seen own backyard, then why not start from there?

I think I’d never be able to comprehend the basic psyche of the masses. Because as much as I know, whether it’s your background, the other side of your own country or deep down in the oceans of this globe – beauty can be found anywhere.

What do you think? Let me know in comments below.

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Shortly after my first real nine-to-five job, I left that lifestyle behind, and with it, everything that didn't fit in my backpack. I've learned that this world is too big (and too interesting!) to stay in one place. I believe that with a little courage and inspiration, everyone has the power to follow their dreams. Just as I've followed mine!

11 Comments

  1. Baba aur baby ko international thapaa pasand hai ……… On a serious note cost maybe. Tripping to South say Kerala will cost you more or less same as travelling to the popular tourist destination in SE Asia. People actually think its better to do a phoren trip in such a case. Domestic flights are expensive…… direct connectivity options are less……. And not to forget grass is always greener on the other side. I personally want to see most of India….. so am on the home grass

  2. Anonymous says

    I support…!! India have all that place where a traveller can go n get the experience of a lifetime….north east is still untouched and isolated…though even i like the remote places but still indians must visit the india first…
    where r u now a days…??

  3. I remember having similar conversations so many times….you might run out of one lifetime if you try to cover part of this country. But I guess, its more of a status symbol these days. You have to travel abroad to prove a status.

    • Yes Deepali, agree with what how you’ve described it. It’s definitely more of a status symbol and Facebook is making it worse. haha! Thanks for your comment.

  4. Hey! If your still interested in visiting south… I can suggest places, not in great detail but I can list names!

    • I am always interested in visiting South. But as a matter of fact, I’ve just returned home (few days ago) after traveling Karnataka, Kerala and Tamil Nadu for about two months. But what all places do you have in mind? Please share. You can also email me at deveshjoshi1990@gmail.com … thanks!

  5. I absolutely agree with u,India being such a geographically diverse country, that one should not plan trips abroad, unless he has explored the country well

  6. Nataraj Kadali says

    Hi Devesh…Beautifully written for those who prefer travelling to other countries over our very own India, makes sense. TC 🙂

    • Yea I personally find India just so perfect for those who love travelling. It’s so diversified and culturally rich. Thanks for your comment.

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