Last week I was watching the movie “Into the Wild” for the seventh time, and it struck me what a frugal thing happiness can be. It has been more than two years now, since I’m living out of my backpack, without a permanent source of income, owning no more than a handful of belongings, yet I am happier more than ever.
We’re caught up in the clutter of day-to-day existence, of paying bills, of buying this and selling that, that taking some time out, only to realise that there is a wide world outside has become so difficult. And not only are we ignoring the free world out there, we are moving farther away from it, everyday, suffocating our previous lives around the tiny corners of our home, and our workplace.
We’ve all read plenty of books, heard dozens of real life accounts, about happy travellers and blissful nomads, and they always leave us in a complete awe. And within us all, there is always a part that wants us to break free and become that rolling stone again that we once were, when we were kids.
The good thing is, it really isn’t a fantasy anymore. People are living that life today more than ever, and if you’re just as eager to experience it, as them, be rest assured that it’s actually not that difficult. To get a taste of the road is easier today. The concept of backpacking developed with the hippie trail in the 60’s and 70’s and today it’s an established form of low – cost independent travel with plenty of travellers all around the globe living out of a backpack.
And you can consider me just one among them!
When I quit my job two years ago, to hit the road, I had no idea what to expect. I was half confused and half scared. But as time went past, and I gained more experience, I realised that it wasn’t so tough to survive this lifestyle after all. And after two years, if I tomorrow had to go back & resume my old 9-5 corporate life in a city – I’d be happy, for I’ve learned to appreciate life and experiences, more than ever. And it was never a deal to become a lifelong nomad anyway!
So yea, travelling never goes in vein. As it always leave behind a better version of you. The many kind experiences of local people and cultures, prepares yourself for a better you. But if you’re looking for a perfect time to travel, you will never be able to travel. Because you will never have enough money. Because your family will always freak out. Because you will wait forever for someone to join you. And because you will always be asked to settle down!
Because You Will Never Have Enough Money
I used to think that I needed to retire before I could travel full-time, and even then I’d need to be pretty rich. But as I explored India, a few other countries around the world and learned to travel smart no matter where I go, I realised that you do not need to be rich to travel.
Even if you’re struggling to save money before you travel, having trouble figuring out how to travel cheaply or just think you’re too poor to travel, if you’re sitting at a computer reading this right now with a passport with no stamps, you have the ability to make it happen financially. Just change your mindset, and the rest will follow.
Just be prepared to stay in hostels and campsites, eat and travel like locals, hitchhike and bargain as you can. And remember, you’re just as capable.
Because Your Family Will Always Freak Out
For younger people, toughest part of traveling solo would be the pushback from their parents. They wonder how they can get them see it from their point of view and support them. But face it, whether you’re a kid to someone or a father, your family is going to freak out in any case.
The more important issue is what you’ll regret later. Will you wish that you’d stayed at home to please your parents, who — since they undoubtedly love you — do want you to live a happy and fulfilled life? I think you don’t!
It’s your life, not theirs. Letting other people make monumental decisions for you is a great way to go down the path of regrets.
Because You Will Wait Forever For Someone To Join You
I know solo travelling isn’t people’s first choice. I remember the first time I decided to travel on my own, I had no intention of doing it. I was desperately looking for a partner – calling, texting everyone I knew – hoping someone would tag along. But I had no luck.
My first solo trip was not out of choice, and neither were many other following that. But I was firm about the idea of travelling, and I didn’t want others to hold my back.
But now when people ask me about my travel life, and all those solo journeys, I laugh that I had ever had that fear. It doesn’t matter if you’re shy; someone will probably start a conversation with you, especially if you stay in a social hostel. Once you get out there, you’ll see what I mean. It’s all about just taking that first step.
And Because You Will Always Be Asked To Settle Down
A common question I get from people back home is “what plans do I’ve for life” or “how about settling down.” Don’t I want a relationship and a family of my own? My question back to them is: Why is traveling and having a family mutually exclusive in this day and age?
Of course, I’ve to make choices, find a sustainable lifestyle, look for permanent revenue sources – but that can be done while travelling, given I know how online industry works, and how one can one make money out of it.
Every problem seems insurmountable at the time, but there are ways to get around those obstacles that keep you from traveling, no matter what!
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